"Are We Dating The Same Guy" (AWDTSG) Facebook groups are private and women-only, so men can't see what's posted about them. AWDTSG Checker has a real person on our team check the relevant city groups for your name and photo and send you a private report with what we find. It is not an instant bot. The poster is never notified. If a post is false or defamatory, we can help get it removed. By Tea App Green Flags.