AWDTSG Guide is a web-based reference tool and checking service that helps individuals determine whether they have been posted about in Are We Dating the Same Guy (AWDTSG) Facebook groups. These groups are private, women-only communities with over 3.5 million members across more than 350 groups nationwide. Because the groups are closed to non-members and their content is not indexed by search engines, the platform addresses the difficulty of detecting such posts. The service offers a free self-service check that requires only a name and photo, takes about three minutes, and needs no account. A paid option is also available, in which the site's team manually searches the groups and delivers a private, human-reviewed report to the user. The accompanying guide documents the technical and practical limitations of AWDTSG checking. It explains that no automated tool can search directly inside a private Facebook group, and it educates users on where these groups operate, what types of content commonly appear, and how removal requests work. The guide outlines several detection methods, including asking a trusted female contact to search the groups on the user's behalf, performing strategic Google searches, monitoring Reddit and other social media platforms, and observing social listening cues or changes in dating app behavior. It also addresses questions about the safety, legitimacy, and accuracy of third-party AWDTSG checker sites, and provides context on Facebook's community standards as they relate to these groups.